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in response to AICIVART... What you are suffering is called 'learned helplessness'.
When a human being has gone through many rejections, we suffer from this.
After being down so long, we have a tendency to give our own pity parties. However,the problem is we will be the only one attending it.
Everyone else is too busy attending their 'own' pity party.
We will have to 'motivate' ourselves.
We can do this by listening to positive messages such as tapes,CD's,positive sermons,etc.
When we are down & out,we have a tendency to become more sensitive than usual.
We get our 'feelings' involved. However, its our 'feelings' that can get in the way of us becoming successful.
Our 'sensivity' & our 'hurt feelings' will not feed us, get us a job or pay bills.
Sometimes, we have to get out of 'our own way'.
Its okay to have an occasionally pity party, but we have to allow only so much time doing so.
For example, I have had to say 'self, you are allowed 2 hours to pity then we have to spend the other time doing something about it. You will have to find the right combination for you.
Get involved in the community,church, volunteer,etc. This will allow an opportunity to network with others to make connections that will land one with a paying job. It will also give one a chance to get 'outside' our own issues for a while. This will give us a new perspective at our own lives.
I hope everything work out for you.
if any one knows of definat places where i can get money please let me know and i mean definat liek i can apply and i get it
I want to here that you have some apartments for people with disabilities, and that you are treating them fairly.
If I would or could have my druthers? It's best not to think of them only what is and what is ahead.Looking behind is always 20/20 but the path you travel what is behind shows you where you have been and the path shows you where you can travel.
in response to 1day@aTime... What happened was that when yoou finally let go you gave room for jesus to come in. When you had all those other issues you had the house locked down, and much like a vampire you have to allow him in, He will not force you to accept him.
Smokin weed too, damn I miss all the good parties.
I think somewhere along the line you found the smart button .Thank you for sharing some valuable advice.