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friendshelpingfriends
 in response to cashay...   Okay, so lets drop all the negative..... your husband is a butt head, but then he is not the only one......

You say you are or want to be a life coach in manifestation. Why not direct your post here towards that.

Every body here has so many problems, including myself, that it could be helpful to learn how to deal and manifest some happiness.

It would make you feel good, and it might help us.......
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Hoping for a Miracle
 in response to Anomaly...   But its bad enough that there are people like me who are struggling so bad and going through the same things and worse and then someone gives you false hope and Its just so disappointing.. I am just so upset over this and the people just move onto another innocent victim.. Its so so wrong and I will go to whatever means to stop this lady..I'm already thrown in the towel at this point as nothing is ever what it seems. I will fight and still do what I have to do to try and keep my electric on so I do not get evicted but not many more hours left but I wont give up... and I have my faith and belief in God and if it is to happen then it will happen for a reason and what that reason is I do not know but I will have to accept it but I wont go down without a fight to accomplish it.. I really wish I could win the lottery( thats real good don't even have a dollar to play but if I did) I would help every person I could because there are so many that fall for these type of people and scam them and I know your not suppose to hold anger in your heart for others but sometimes its just impossible not to with people like the ones scamming..But on another note I hope everyone who is needing prayers and help I pray for you to recieve what you need.. .. may all have a good day and God Bless
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friendshelpingfriends
 in response to cashay...   If that is the case, and your choice is to stay...... then why are your crying abuse to everyone on the board.......

just wondering
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trust
I am currently unemployed i live with my parents and i recently separated from my girlfriend.I feel so alone
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Anomaly
 in response to Hoping for a Miracle...   I'm sorry that this happened to you. Unfortunately, work at home scams are thriving.
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Hoping for a Miracle
Well what is on my mind today is just when I thought I was doing something to help my situation out I learn the person who was givng me an opportunity to make money online was scamming me.. had me posting ads on craigslist and it just kept seeming not right on some things she was saying so I go and do a search on the email she had me using to post the ads with and what do I find. ITS ON THE SCAMMERS LIST FOR EMAILS ON CRAIGSLIST. Well I saved all the conversations and ads she had me post and all the information and sent it to craigslist with all her information.. I do not mind doing work but to be dishonest is not me and why I didnt check it all out to start with is beyond me , I guess it was just that Im so desperate to be able to survive and trying and worring and praying it slipped my mind..Well Its all been turned in and documented and I posted over 80 ads( they were for vacation rentals) for her but they will be removed I will see to that as I am not the type of person to do wrong. wasn't raised to try to hurt or scam anyone.. I feel so so bad and can not stop crying because of what someone had me doing and I was so blinded by desperation to try and make things work. just glad I found all this out and didn't accept one penny of the dirty money she would have given me or not given me its just still wrong and I feel so bad.. What tipped me off more then anything is today I asked her did she need anything for tax forms and she didn't need any of my info for a 1099 form for any taxes or anything like that so thats when I felt I needed to look into it more and I just made my paypal account(well son helped me) and she does have that email for it but nothing more so she cant do anything to my account can she?. I saved all the emails she sent me from her email and its probably a fake email at that to find her but some how someway I will do what I can to stop her..How come there is so many that take advantage of the ones who are asking for help and really need the help and they swoop in and take advantage of them. I just can not stop crying thinking I was maybe gonna be able to hopefully climb my way out of this situation and survive just would take a bit and now its like the last bit of hope I had is gone.. sorry everyone for venting just need someone to really talk to as Im just upset and hurt and mad at myself.. I hope everyone is at least trying to have a good day and God Bless
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friendshelpingfriends

 in response to cashay...   If you are waiting for a time when you will be sufficient financially before leaving, that is like saying when I win the lottery, then I will leave.

No one, and I mean no one, is ever financially free..... and as far as a burden goes, a burden to who.....

Again my dear friend, a cop out. If you were sincere about the situation you are truly in, you would find a way out. Trust me, been there, done that. And once you do leave, then you begin to rebuild and shoot for the goal of being financially free.

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Schmidty
 in response to char6...   Amen!
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Schmidty

 in response to cashay...   I am not attacking you , I'm trying to point out how scrambled your post are.you are trying to make money,you aren't trying to make money.You are looking for a house from Habitat.Your sons see themselves as being rich, they built Wealth Consciousness. Didn't you teach them to share and why aren't they helping you?If you are enting , you are venting, but it sounds as if you are just making stories up in hopes that people will buy it.

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Anonymous
 in response to cashay...   you seem to be very level headed about the whole thing so whatever your doing keep it up. If you have raised children with a self-worth and high self-esteem despite the dsyfunction of your husband, then my hat is off to you. I have worked in domestic violence shelters and unfortunately some women there got very comfortable with their situations because the abuse was not physical but mental , however it sometimes escalates to that. Domestic abuse often escalates from threats and verbal abuse to violence. And while physical injury may be the most obvious danger, the emotional and psychological consequences of domestic abuse are also severe. Emotionally abusive relationships can destroy your self-worth, lead to anxiety and depression, and make you feel helpless and alone. No one should have to endure this kind of pain—and your first step to breaking free is recognizing that your situation is abusive.Sounds like you already know there is abuse going on and I wish you the best of luck in getting out of it eventually and leading a healthier existence
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Melrose05
 in response to lbart123...   Bart,
Thanks so much for your advice . It is greatly appreciated. So all I have to take them is my eviction notice? Are they open on Sunday? Sorry so many questions. I am just trying to figure this out. Thanks
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Anonymous
 in response to callinggodsangels...   As a domestic abuse survivor, I am gonna have to agree with Scmidty that what he said is just common sense, its not abuse and whats the difference anyway? She is choosing to continue to be victimized and opening herself up to others opinion when she voices it here. Perhaps what Scmidy tells her will be taken to heart and she will forget about trying to make money with the laws of attraction and get the hell out of the house with her life while she still has one. I believe that people need to stop coddling and counseling when its life or death, and sounds like it is, then she needs to open her eyes and go. Many have done it , IVE done it and it saved my life and my childrens. Im glad that someone gave me the push i need or I would have given excuse after excuse of why i wasnt leaving, or waiting for the perfect opportunity to leave. That day would have never come, I would have left in a body bag the same way she will leave if she doesnt do something quick. Her wanting to support herself is great however her immediate concern should be running as fast as she can in the other direction. Ive offered the info I have on the shelter in her area and she already knew exactly where it was "in case things get bad" so apparently things are not bad enough yet that she wants to leave so dont jump all over someone else who is tired of hearing how bad things are, but see's she doesnt really want a way out, just a "hand out"
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Schmidty
 in response to cashay...   Then why ask how to make money off of it. Refering to post 14702, then in post 14723 you mention about applying for a car and Habitat, you talk about applying for benefits and not getting them. You say you aren't asking for money, but it sure looks like you are building up to it.

If you just wanted to vent you wouldn't be so graphic, you'd be wanting out of that situation right now. There are domestic violence centers all over. If you were wanting out you'd get out.

Then , instead of asking how to get money and everything that you have applied for and not granted, yet. and you haven't gotten benefits for, you'd just tell everyone you are venting that you don't want help and leave it at that. Period.
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nee nee
hi ...i am in need of help to pay my light and gas bill. i am scheduled for shut off on 4/15/2011. i am unemployed at this time, due to a heart attack and heart surgery. i am an honest person and hope this site is for real. my gas bill is 800.00 but i need 685.00 to keep it on and my lights are 600.00.i need 368.00 to keep it on. i will be able to reimburse you in a few months when i have returned to work and get a few paychecks. thanking you in advance
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lbart123
 in response to Mimzy...   hi hon.
How beautifull i felt like i was on a beach as i read this,i felt so relax thank you so much,i did start to write a journie for my family,the only thing i fear of death is the pain of fighting for my breath,i did talk to my dr about it and he said he would keep me drugged up so i will go out like a happy camper,i have been searching into stem cell treatment for over a year,it seem like the best thing so far,but now i guess they are trying stents to open the airway and the testing will we done in 2012 so i pray it gets approvel if so it should be in the usa,when i get to feeling to depress i read the bible and then i get lost in my own little world thinking i cann't wait to go to heaven.i want you to know you did make me feel so relax a gain.
Thank you and god bless
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lbart123
 in response to cashay...   AND THEN YOU DO WHAT MY MOM DID TO GET OUT SHE TOOK A 357 MAGAIIUM AND PUT IT IN HER MOUTH.WITH MY 15 YEAR OLD SISTER IN THE OTHER ROOM,THEIR WAS 4 OF US DAUGHTERS,SHE FELT SHE HAD NO WAY OUT.THIS WAS IN 1971 AND I STILL REMENBER THAT DAY AS IF IT WAS TODAY,RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN,
GOOD LUCK
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lbart123
 in response to Melrose05...   Mel,
If you have a salvation army their and you take them you evection notice most times they will pay your rent for 1 month,allso if your only 1 month behind and didn;t go to court you can make your land load take you to court that will give you another 30 days or more,i know you would hate to do that but you have babies to think of.ask him for just a few more days.most landlord have lost income insurance on thier property,that he can recover..the reason i know this i have friends with rentals. good luck
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callinggodsangels
 in response to cashay...   sometimes you stay because your scared of what he says he will do to you and your children if you try to leave but leave you must and find a safe place to hide even if it means changing your name and moving to a faraway and new place to live. It is not easy to do and it takes the cooperation of other members of your family and friends that you trust will not tell him of your plans....I was lucky I had an army officer for a brother and he immediately got me well away from my ex. by the time he knew what had happened I was half way around the world staying with my sisterinlaw and other family members...if you lack the family help that I had every district attorneys office has a victims assistance program or can put you in touch with one and they can get you out, get you a counsler to work with you both before and after you leave, set you up with services and make sure you have a place to leave to...don't stay because no matter what you are thinking you only have a 30% chance of survival if you stay...you have 98% chance if you leave. Those odds are definately in your favor if you get yourself out now...for every day you stay they start to go down...you deserve better and you have the strength deep inside of you to get to the place where you need to be and get yourself out. I ask that anyone, not only cashay, who has found themselves in an abusive relationship please take to heart what I have said here don't waite until you are laying in a hospital room beaten within an inch of death, like I was, before you do something believe me when I tell you that it is not easy to go from tiny and timid mouse to large and dominant Lion but it definately can be done I am living proof of that very fact. And remember most importantly that you are worth your weight in gold, you have the strength you need, the courage to strike out on your own and you are a survivor because you have already survived the worst that will happen to you. and you can always message me and I can do all the looking up of numbers and sources of help if you can not. I will be praying for you to find your way down the path you must travel...
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callinggodsangels

 in response to Schmidty...   At the risk of sounding mean I have to say what is on my mind how do you think the abuse you just piled upon her head is any different than the one that her Tyrant dishes out on a daily basis. you started at the begining of your post and right down to the bottom you put her down and called her stupid and a coward. tell me sir how does that lift her up and honor her so that she will have the strength and support she needs to make one of the scariest and most dangerous moves of her life. Grow up and learn to encourage those who are down instead of being the final boot print on their back. One last thing to think about those of us who go through all of lifes chanllenges wether we are brave and stand up or scared and cowaring have a lot to offer as a life coach since we are the ones who start out cowaring in the corner then end up ruling the world and are well able to pass on the lessons we have learned.

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Anonymous

I'm tired. I sometimes wonder if I'll be like this for the rest of my life, living like this and seeing my mother sick and sad all the time. When ever I'm in street and look in how there are people who are smiling so easily with no worries or sadness...I wonder if I'll ever be like that. All i wish right now is to find someone or something to help us find a home we can afford. but my mom is out of money. and if we leave from where we currently are living at, i know we will end up in the street again. But i can't stand our roommates they don't let us sleep, breath or eat. They care only about making us feel bad and stealing from us. I want my own home, i place where i can feel free. a peaceful place. But i can't get a job and my moms job is so slow. I don't know from where we are going to get money from. i hate this.

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