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MagnoliaBlossom
To save money untill Cliff gets well and can work he had our cable shut off. I was really upset. I'm used to having cable. We have found free TV. You can watch shows or movies. This is one site and I'm sure there are others.http://www.fancast.com/ I watched Master of the World with Vincent Price.Maybe some of you already know about free TV.I thought I'd let you know anyway.Take Care.
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Starshine

HI SANDRA35

GOOD TO SEE YOU BACK HERE IF YOU ARE ON WHEN THIS GOES THROUGH. I GOT A PHONE CALL FROM A PERSON I DON'T KNOW AND THOUGHT HE WAS MY UNCLE SOUNDED LIKE HIM. TURNED OUT TO BE A CONSTRUCTION COMPANY LOOKING FOR PROSPECTS. NOT HERE AS THIS IS NOT MINE BUILDING. LOVE THOSE CALLS..

HUGS

Starshine

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Danny095

I'm trying to find my friend Eddie "White Eagle" Hauff and his wife Marie.  They were living in New Orleans before Katrina and the letter I mailed to them came back unclaimed.

Dan

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shyshy471

Hi shyshy 471 again let me post the right amounts concerning what I just posted they overpaid my daughter 7.59 to much SSI from March 2008 thru April 2110 because of child support she does not get that much they we be taking .40 out of her checks beginnning July first 2110.

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shyshy471

Morning I tell you I wont to give up okay here I go down to see my daughter on the bus get the mail here the social security office dont wrote saying they dont overpaid her since March 2008  7.59 and as of July first 2110 .40 would be coming out of her checks okay you just decreased her check now I am looking at five hundred and something to pay bills and get food.

How the hell excuse me did it take you'll so long to discover you had over paid her now I got sanctioned and here  I got to get money out her child support account and get a printer so I can do this job contact form hopefully get my food stamps back if  I could give them a 0.00 until it was paid off I would social services thinks I can work my 17 year old daughter is handicapped when I got sanctioned they took my tanf and my food stamps I went to legal aid and reapplied still no go.

My employment services worker is by the book all to it I try not to stress and worry because after she leaves I need to take a nap and do whatever but always something and I got to stop all to it I feel like going off and crying she does not get that much child support putting it on that oh please yesterday I stressed and worried the printer my neighbor gave it to me wont work wont print a thing paper shoots back out I have had this job contact form 2 weeks this Friday and I do work on it when I can I need everybody that will pray for me because sometimes I do understand why people do the things they do for real  why do a job contact form no jobs out here Sundays paper the wont ads sad here I got to pay for her students dues by the end of the school year  30.00 if any of you know where I can buy a cheap printer let me know I wont to go Friday daughter has a dr's appointment Thursday I hope staples has cheap ones the one at best buy in Sundays paper .99 then there is tax.

I am online so please email me sure need it shyshy 471

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dethomit
Are there any companies that can help with a defaulted school loan?  I work part time and only make about 0 a month and about 0 goes to neccessary bills (rent, utilities, gas, car insurance, groceries). They are asking for a minimum of 0 a month to pay my bills and I can't manage it.  I have a total of around ,000 in defaulted school loans and I don't know where to turn.  They have already taken my Federal Tax Refund and are talking about garnishing my wages, which would make me unable to pay my rent and make me homeless.  I realize that I probably should have paid this off before now, but should my consequence be homelessness?
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sasha77

I own a online bakery. Since no one is going to help me I will help myself. I need any and everyone to get involved. My goal is to make 40-50 cakes in one month to earn my bill money. If anyone knows of any sponsors to help me get this done please let me know. I am a really great baker. All cakes will cost and it will help me pay my bills and avoid being evicted.

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cjm1971

My family and I are healthy and we ate today! We believe in Christ and love him. All I wish is that I could make a living, because I am sick of worrying about how to pay my rent and where the next buck is going to come from; can anyone help us?

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Starshine
 in response to Late bloomer...   

LOL Monday here and I need 7 Sundays. Not major fan of Mondays but try not to stress over it as it is the one day of the week hate to be a bummer for heart attacks. I am try to get work done before kitty hits me...You too enjoy-thank you

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Late bloomer
 in response to RALPH7...   

Hi Ralph,

Lets pray and trust in wont turn any than this. May God bless and minister your sight.

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Late bloomer
 in response to Starshine...   

Its Monday here and I hate Mondays with a passion but today I told myself to forget self and get on with it, which I did. Am actually surprised by the amount of work accomplished. Playing a few mind stimulating games and bed.

 

Enjoy.

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Late bloomer
 in response to nancyfromnh...   

Nancyfromnh,

May the Lord make you strong and free from pain. He is faithful and gracious, hold on to Jesus' robe like the haemorrhagic woman. May you find emotional and spiritual support.

 

 

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Starshine
 in response to Late bloomer...   

I have been ok and give my self till 330pm to get things accomplished before cat comes out here to beg for treats. He must wear himself out at night...We are hanging in there and I need to put flea stuff on him so best time is to get him when he is sleeping but that stresses him and me out.. He hates any type of liquid on his hair...LOL he has an easy life eat, sleep eat sleep...

What have you been doing ??

take care...

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AlexJK

Good

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Late bloomer
 in response to Starshine...   How have you been? Take care of yourself and Kitty.
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Starshine
 in response to Late bloomer...   Good wonder where you were...
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Late bloomer

Hi mates, am still around!

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sweetmeat58

Hello Father of Five Children:

As a child of divorce I would like to share some realities your five children you created are experiencing in your absence.  Where is my father?  Why does'nt he love me enough to be here every day and feed, me, love me, teach me to read, be at my events in school to cheer for me and hug me, and pick me up and spin me around and say I love you, good job.  You created one, then two, then three , then four, then five children who you have spiritual, actual, day to day, safety from harm and strangers, daddy why questions, holding their hand and walking and talking with them, teaching them civility, manners,fellowship to community,self responsibility, and family responsibility and accountability to care for what you create, cherish, and respect, and support those who belong to you.  I have worked for over thirty years and am terminally ill and my father cries to me and tells me how sorry he is he was not there for me, but I feel anger and resentment only and try to forgive him and heal that, but the time I needed him has passed and he can never mak it up sohear my real message and meaning I have compassion and be clear I am not judging you, but the dark lonely times and nights without a father hurt in a deep place that time never heals, and I am sorry's do not repair, know that as you stay away.  A resentment builds up that a child takes into their personal relationships and it distorts the ability to trust, makes a deep sadness and creates fear of abandonment, which makes a person clingy, which is fear created by your absence they will never be good enough , important  nor valuable enough to be loved so any  person will stayby their side.  The fact you are unemployed  is a factor,but why abandon your children?  I hear selfishness, a mentality of self entitlement to just let others do your job, rationalizations, and alot of passing your responsibilities to others .  If you are not mentally disabled you should be with your wife raising the children you chose to bring into this world, not anyone else.  If you have to pick up cans, a team is of two loving adults is better than a solo, do you even think about the pressure and stress she must be under worrying, struggling alone, having to answer where are you questions?  one woman left with five children you laid with her and made.  Now the fun is over, and no birth control was used, or did not work, or maybe you chose to have five children, but it is your sole responsibility to stick by her side not send e-mails and ask strangers to give you money to waste on yourself.  I hope someone gives you a non refundable bus or plane ticket so you can get home where you belong, grow up, the party is over and you are setting a poor example of what a father does for those he loves.  We are born in debt and we die in debt, lots of it, so that is no excuse to leave the responsibility of five children on one person.  It is not fair, she is sacrificing all what are you sacrificing?she has no break, but you are on one now and she should be getting help from social services, but money does not replace a man's love, suport, discipline over the children and presence. That is more important than a bill collector calling for money you owe.  Go home and be a daddy, dishwasher, ball player, good night story reader, garbage emptier, walgreen shopper taking timeto go for vitamins and socks to keep feet warm.  I share a historic where was my father hurt from needing a father who abandoned us with the same excuses and any child if asked would rather be poor with a father in the home rather than rich without a father.  You will always owe someone but  make a budget with your wife call Care One Credit Counseling (1-866-222-0108)  and they help you budget, make a plan to pay back and relieve the pressure of bill collector's harassing you, so you can be the father to the five children who want to look up to you as a father, daddy, man of the house, not a man in a hotel room telling people he has a family somewhere in America other's are taking care of because you are not able to because of poor life choices, go home because you will be old one day and wish you had been a loving caring father.

Sweetmeat58,

Child of divorce sharing tough love...

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Starshine
 in response to RALPH7...   

Thank you for informing me as I know diabetes affects the eyes. Are there any foods that can help with your eyesight and I understand the whole deal with MS attacking the nerves. About the percentage rate for going blind that is low. I know it is easier said than done as I am not a pro at worrying or being scared of things going wrong with my leg but we have to remember not to fuel the fire with worry. It is good that it can be treated so you can ask your doctor for a eye exam to make sure all is ok....take care Ralph

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RALPH7
 in response to Starshine...   yes it is common for people with MS,remember it atacks nerves & the eyes are one of them that they attack.Most of the time it can be treated it is only 5% that go blind.
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